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What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

14.06.2025 10:45

What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.

If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.

Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?

Why am I losing interest to get a job and to all my desires because of this spiritual awakening? How do I get through life because of it?

It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.

Because it hurts that they are not with you?

Because you are in sorrow without them?

Do people really have sex with animals?

Because only you LOVED?

If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.

Because you were just unlucky in love?

What happens if someone fills up their car at the pump but leaves without paying? How is this situation typically handled?

You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.

Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?

True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.

Why do men like to have sex with a woman's ass?

Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.

Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?

If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,

What were the first few days, weeks, months and then years like after finding out about your spouses infidelity? How did your feelings, and yours & their approach to the situation change in the immediate aftermath compared to later down the line?

Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?

Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.

Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.

Do you regret being married to your current wife?

I love getting tired of loving that someone though…

Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?

Or because she doesn’t love you back?

I’ve a dismissive avoidant partner who said that he’s overwhelmed by our relationship and that he wants to break up, how do I get him back?

Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?

But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.

~KSR

Why do I sweat so much at the gym?

Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.

You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?

Or because they’re happy without you.

One day, I happened to walk past where my crush was with friends. Then all of a sudden they start laughing, and someone maybe him, goes "freaking (my name) with her freaking hair!" Can anyone offer insights into this? We're in middle school.